There's a right time to begin just about everything. The most important events in our life deserve to get off on the right foot and that's what *electional astrology* helps us do.

Once you've found The One and you've committed to being together, a third chart is born. It's your relationship's 'love-child! Discover how to care for and feed your loving union's love-child through exploring your relationship's spiritual purpose (Sun), non-negotiable happiness needs (Moon), style of walking in the world, together (Ascendant or Rising Sign)...and much, much more. Fun and useful, you'll learn how to more deeply care for, support & nourish your partnership.

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: So, you're in a relationship, and it's hot, fun, difficult and sometimes in your face. Is all that drama necessary? If you're a Venus in Aries, you already know the answer, but let's imagine...being in a relationship where dinner is always served on time. Your partner always agrees with you. While watching the game, your partner roots for your home team. The litter box may need changing, but amazingly, there's no argument because you both agree you don't want to do it. Is this kind of peace, good? No friction, no diversity of opinion and no passion equals no aliveness & no spark. To ignite the latent passions we have inside, we need 'spark'.

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: Body standards seem to change with the wind and eating is one way of 'feeling better'. And is a healthy appetite so wrong? Botticelli’s Venus, with enough belly for a muffin top, was once beauty's standard. Not so today. Today it's, Kate 'nothing tastes as good as skinny feels' Moss. So what is true beauty? Beauty is a way of being in the world. It’s  also not just one thing. True beauty, like happiness, has many components: a healthy body, an intellectually stimulated mind, emotional well-being, spiritual peace – together these create ease in one’s own skin. 

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: The true fruit of love relationship, intimacy, can't acquired in a weekend workshop. Unlike falling in love with a new subject, when we fall in love with someone, we eventually need to specialize in the most intimate subject called: You & I, Together. This requires feet-first all- hands-on-deck commitment, for without committing to a few years together (let alone a lifetime) we will never know the rich growth opportunities that arises from looking at all our Stuff. And their Stuff, too. Combined. Granted, the person we choose to give all our energies to will likely have qualities we'd rather cash our cards in on, than hang out with. Hello? We have those cards, too! 

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: Venus in Cancer born may need to recognize the value of leaving home. We may need to shift our family loyalties from our primary family, to our Self. This may mean we stop unconsciously approval-seeking, stop trying to meet their needs before our own, and stop acting from inherited attitudes and values - so we can be a whole person for our partner. The power in the process of psychologically leaving home shouldn't be underestimated - it may be the missing piece in our love work. Nostalgia for who or what once was, or who or what never was, is a nostalgic crab-trap for Venus in Cancer! Just ask Halle Berry who once said, “I know that I will never find my father in any other man who comes into my life, because it is a void in my life that can only be filled by him.” 

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: In life, we are all asked to wear masks to survive. Often we learn rejection before acceptance, betrayal before trust, and experience invisibility before we get a chance to shine in our strengths. This Venus sign is Fixed, which is just an astrological word for “stubborn”! Through persevering, taking confidence in one’s inner light, Leo persists. Even when no one's applauding, Venus in Leo has the fortitude to keep on keeping on. Through the sheer force of her creative desire and focused intensity when the time is right, false masks fall and her star rises.  

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: No Venus sign likes to be taken for granted, yet because Virgo is so competent, she often takes on more than most, but never asks for credit for it. Inwardly Venus in Virgo feels like the grain of sand on an endless beach. Adding salt to the sand, she is often filled with self-doubt about her personal worth so she’s inclined to play down her efforts even more. This is a shame, because whereas other Venus signs are guilty of too much good marketing and not enough follow-through, Virgo's attentiveness, precision and devotion to detail makes her good work the worthiest! Your biggest love challenge is breaking down your personal worth and self deserved-ness fears, with deserved-ness; your loveless logic, with straight up logic -which you have, in spades.

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: Having a good time is a secret to effortless-looking success. Venus in Libra has already figured out that joy attracts joy, happiness attracts happiness, and success attracts success. That's one of Venus' laws of attraction. This golden law is far more powerful than it sounds. It's a formula for receiving just about anything she wants. By giving what she most desires to others, she obtains her heart's desires from others. So simple, yet so effective! In kindness, affection, appreciation and good graces – people want to give back to her what she gives them. It's amazing how fabulously well this Libran golden rule works. Try it. It works every time.

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: Pick up any woman’s magazine and you’ll see pop psychology quizzes and articles about ‘what men (or women) want in bed’ and ‘how to keep the flame of passion alive’. Give me a break. Intimacy is more individual and compelling than just bedroom tricks and great lingerie. A surefire way to wake up the smoldering embers of mediocre sex, or no sex at all - tell the truth! Great sex, requires full on unadulterated psychological and emotional sex. Emotional honesty makes us feel thrillingly alive.  If two people are attempting to have a sexual relationship without really knowing each other, it's like sleeping with a person and keeping a secret part of your life off limits...

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: Accumulating relationship experience and getting a life of one’s own are prerequisite life requirements for every person who wants to enter a relationship whole, instead of half. And gathering experience, as you're learning, is the right thing for you. You jump right into love, because love is growth inducing! You're also wary of anyone who limits your freedom, hence your reputation for 'least likely to commit'. Instead of being a dire prediction on your love life, this is positive prophecy on how to go about getting what and who you most desire. Someone you can grow with is great! Anyone who truly loves you will give you the freedom to grow. Love and freedom are not mutually exclusive, and if you believe this, you will attract relationships that always somehow end up limiting you. To avoid sabotaging your love life, you might try working with your beliefs...

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: An ideal relationship has two rooms. It allows room for two individual people who lead their own lives independent of the other, and also has a room for the two to meet and come together as one. To do this successfully and without suffering, boundaries of space, time and personal need should be both negotiated, understood and honored. Obviously, not everyone one meets will enjoy this style of self-reliant, yet interdependent partnership. But the Venus in Capricorn person does! This is real criteria for a life partner they can build a life with. 

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: We can spend our entire life looking for the freedom to authentically self-express, and when we look to others for the freedom we desire, come up short. That's because what we want isn't freedom from the expectations, desires or needs of others – but the freedom we desire to give to our self. Most of the oppressive people and paradigms we want to change, can be shifted inside our self. When we comfortably live in independence, authenticity and realism within our self, almost magically, we give others' permission to do and be the same. That's a formula for freedom in love.

Explore your erotic gifts and secret desires through the lens of a real life Goddess who shares your Venus sign.

Excerpt: On Planet Earth we place far too much attention on what’s in front of our eyes, rather than the infinite possibility contained between them - in our minds - all the room between our ears for creativity, fantasy, spirituality and imagination.  Placing too much faith in our bank statements, ambitions, the political pundits, wars, institutions, the dishes, the anxieties and temporal identities can hold your soulful imagination (and potentially your Soul Mate), hostage. Venus in Pisces born need to believe in something and someone beyond the laundry lists of the world as mundane concerns leave little room for being enchanting, her real forte...

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Makes a fantastic and unique gift for friends, lovers, partner! Have all their birthdays covered, so you won't have to think about what to give anyone for the rest of the year. Give them the inspirational gift of loving oneself and others more deeply, fearlessly, magically. 

Looking at your birth chart primarily through the Moon's Nodes, Venus, and the Arc of Intimacy (the Fourth thru Eighth Houses) we explore the karmic themes you experience with others, how to meet your essential relationship needs, and identify your unique deal breakers - those 'must-haves' that you require for committed intimacy. By expanding your awareness of who you're looking for, get ready for the imminent arrival of new love.

Gloria Steinem said, ‘There are many more people trying to meet the right person than to become the right person.’ Looking at transits and progressions to your natal chart, we'll identify the energy influencing your relationships today. We'll learn to recognize partners who resemble the high and low signatures of this energy. As astrology says 'to everything there is a season', we'll examine time frames for: significant relationship endings, changes, and new beginnings for love.

To the ancients, the astrologer was a magician capable of divinely wooing the stars and planets to do one’s bidding- or at least court one’s intended. Based on my tried n' true method for attracting a mate, we explore your personal Venus as a resonant, magnetic and spiritual attractive force. Not just for singles: this is a practical hands on, easy approach to magic-making. 3-part lecture (click: 'more details' below) includes a fascinating exploration in identifying your soul mates and karmic mates through your astrological birth chart. 7 page PDF handout included.

90 minute instructional MP3 & notes from lecture given at SFAS, San Francisco, CA 2010.

"I loved that you directly addressed doing magic in a calm way, and gave good suggestions about timing, etc. I have successfully used magic for many years now and can attest to its power. In fact I saw a couple people after the meeting putting their heads together and figuring out how to do money magic with Venus, adjusting your romantic suggestions." - Linea Van Horn, President San Francisco Astrological Society

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