Venus in Aquarius, An Outrageous Beauty

“Women might be able to fake orgasms, but men can fake whole relationships.” -Sharon Stone, Venus in Aquarius

“Take your life in your own hands and what happens? A terrible thing. No one to blame.” -Erica Jong, Venus in Aquarius

“The truth will set you free. But first it will piss you off.” -Gloria Steinem, Venus in Aquarius

“Sometimes you can’t see yourself clearly until you see yourself through the eyes of others.” – Ellen DeGeneres, Venus in Aquarius

If you were born when Venus was in the constellation of Aquarius, the Water Bearer…

Venus in Aquarius’ perceptions about love, art, beauty, body, and relationship are far from mainstream. This is the Venus sign who wants to build a separate wing on the house for her partner. Outrageous! What’s outrageous to you is not the same, to me; we are shaped by the cultural constructs of the time and place in which we live, and for Venus in Aquarius no matter whether taking off your Burka in France or leaving a stifling marriage in Utah, outrage is sacred. For you, standing up for your right to be happy, free and loved in the way you want to be loved, is a radical act of self-love. When this Venus sign dares to truthfully turn the tables on social expectations, she will likely shock people. This certainly makes for interesting relationships. It also makes this Venus sign one of the most invigorating, unusual people to hang with!

A Venus in Aquarius in love…

Every astrology textbook says Aquarius needs freedom. Why is this? In the karmic past we may’ve signed on to play a role, to become someone we’re not, to be a pretty face in the crowd, or we may have become overly defined by our gender role. In short, in matters of relating and self-worth, we’ve deviated too far from our truth. Optimally, this Venus sign was born to challenge the status quo– in values, relationship, art, self-worth and body image. This may include re-drawing the lines of the sexual and body politic, the social and gender roles within a community, or breaking the relationship mold she’s been given. All confrontations against her authentic self are alchemical acts that bring her closer to happiness. Truthfulness is a perilous position for the Goddess who strives for peace, love and happiness but she has no choice but to live by her own rules.

What this Venus sign needs to keep the love going..

This Venus sign can sometimes be heard saying things like: “I want to be loved for my brains, not my body or sexual orientation.” This is a worthy request to make of our admirers and friends, but over time our reactionary insistence on being perceived in a certain way can bring out an intolerant streak in the sign known for it’s tolerance! When other people become too unacceptable to tolerate, our own self-acceptance remedies this. Often the liberation in love that we crave isn’t freedom from the expectations of others, or changing their point of view, but the liberation we crave we must learn to give our self, first. The deeper request of Venus always, is: Love me, for being me. In Aquarius, Venus says, I am unlike anyone you’ve ever known before. I will be real with you and all I ask is for you to be authentic and real with me.

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Comments

  1. Merryweather says:

    “In Aquarius, Venus says, I am unlike anyone you’ve ever known before. I will be real with you and all I ask is for you to be authentic and real with me.”

    Absolutely, Lady! You hit it dead on, says this Venus in Aquarius chick!

  2. Oh yes, I have natal venus in aquarius and I’m getting married on Tues, when venus conjuncts my MC(getting married in the church on Tues [we've been married civily for 17 years])but why now? Wait for it, because this venus in aquarius is in love with the priest who will marry us and I have been for over two years!
    How else could I be true to myself? I don;t deliberately break the rules, they’re just in the way to my personal free and true expression of love. Had to tell someone and only venus in aquarius could and would understand.
    Love to you Jessica, great site
    Many thanks
    Jumy

  3. Wow!!! What a great definition of the Venus sign that has given me so much pain!

    And, of course, Jumy thinks she is in love with the priest. She’s just afraid she’ll get hurt and is rationalizing.

    This is the cruelest of Venuses to be in love with. How to come out without getting hurt is still something I question. I’ve decided to give these people up. But you’re explanation should give anyone prepared for this task some hope.

    Xtrology

  4. I have Venus in Aquarius are love is electricity, I was looking to the sky was is “God of Sky” the sign Aquarius. I has been a lot of friends and love the people if I feel more likes interested. I have only one love at last forever are most beautiful man personality. Ashley Bishop

  5. It has been said that venus in aquarius people just up and leave without reason. Let me assure you that there IS a reason and usually a dammed good one, from their perspective..And cannot just go on as usual and pretend nothing is wrong. The main thing being if I have to expalin it to you, then you would not be smart enough to understand it anyway.. So I leave,but it takes a lot.! BTW my sunsign is Aquarius as well.
    I hate being alone, but I cannot stand most people.

  6. Chiccreek says:

    Fab description! I loved reading it!

    I’m venus in Aquarius, 1st house.
    Mars and pluto in Scorpio
    Sun is in Pisces
    Moon in Taurus! Seems like a good cocktail in terms of beauty, isn’t it? :D :D
    Only trouble there is venus squares my mars and my moon. :(

    I stand out in many places for my style- eccentric yet simple, delicate, sexy,and classy. I like to dress up like the real me- unique. :)

    Love—ah good question, my 6 years old younger-to-me bf is crazy in love with me and I’m blissfully in love with him. We are still very committed despite being more than 1 year physically apart. But I see his venus in scorp, mars in Taurus, sun in scorpio and moon in leo has a lot to do in making this chemistry work. His moon in leo is my point of balance.

    I know a guy with Venus and sun in Aquarius and strangely enough his moon is in taurus too- like me, but his eccentricity is too irritating for me at times!

  7. I am a sun, moon, mercury in pisces, and venus in Aquarius…. EVERYONE LOVES ME! Like infatuated… It sounds pleasant, However finding someone WHO REALLY LOVES ME, Is very complicated! this is what drove me to this site! AAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHH I love the attention I receive from others, But it so often turns out to be a MESS! no better way to put it! and If I dont feel authentic LOVE! I LEAVE without notice…. But To explain to the affection of your object, you simply do not feel LOVED…. IS IMPOSSIBLE! they just try harder AND always in vain!

  8. Hi DaVoo, With that much Pisces you would be open and lovable and bubbly and glamorous and all those wonderful traits. I imagine boundary issues are a problem because if you’re open to being loved by everyone, a lot of pressure (to choose who to be intimate with) falls on your Venus. It’s too much! She is the Goddess of Discernment, of learning how to wisely choose partners -not just anyone- of understanding who we like, what we enjoy, our turn offs and the subtle process of deciding who to let in, is apart of the individuating process for any Venus sign. Learn to make the finer distinctions between the people who love you & people you could love. Boundaries help with this. You’re right: getting and receiving attention and affection is not true love. That’s an important distinction to make.

  9. I am actually a Venus in Aries, but I am also very Uranian (moon, mercury, and Venus aspects) and this describes me to a T. I can seldom tolerate men for more than a year. I start feeling stifled and irritated. I seem to find myself in tons of long distance relationships, and/or with men who are somehow unsuitable or unavailable (and therefore unsuitable). I’ll get it together eventually.

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