Ask Moonkissd: Is Aries In It For the Long Haul?

by | Mar 23, 2009 | Aries, Ask MoonKissd - Advice Column | 1 comment

Hi Jessica,

I was born on the 31st of March, 1970, in Canberra, Australia at 1.27am. My boyfriend was born on the 5th of April, 1970, Brisbane, Australia, time unknown. Over the last couple of weeks, our communication and his affection has been different. Today he tells me that he doesn’t know what he wants in all aspects of his life, and doesn’t know what he wants in regards to me. He says his feelings have changed towards me, he just doesn’t feel the same, and doesn’t at the moment see our relationship as long term. I am a single mum, and have know him for 20 years, we haven’t been in contact for the past 10 years, but last year on the 15th July we resumed our friendship. I haven’t been able to stop thinking about him over the last few years, and when we met up again, I pretty much told him I wanted a long term relationship with him and if he didn’t feel the same not to start something with me. Could you please shed some light on whether this is just short term, or whether this is the end and I should just let him go?

Two Aries Sun signs together equal…never a dull moment. Spring usually sends Aries love-making into overdrive but with Love Goddess retrograde (March – April 15) in your sign, reflective down time is invaluable for the Rams. Your guy’s Venus and Saturn in Taurus is opposed by Jupiter. Eventually he’ll settle down but until he makes peace with the conflicting urge to commit or keep his options open, he could make you into his ball and chain – not the Aries temptress you are. Meanwhile Saturn retrograding through your 8th house of deep commitment has you questioning his. How to proceed? Trust him when he says he doesn’t know who he is or who he wants. Common sense says never push an Aries/Taurus (or any man for that matter) toward a decision as putting pressure on a stressed out fire-earth combo is doomed to backfire. For the next 3 weeks, time spent apart brings you clarity about what matters most. Mid-April through May spiritually uplifting and romantic love energy comes your way – though be alert to being so hungry for love that you’ll eat anything offered. Keep your lifetime of love lessons lived and learned close at heart.

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1 Comment

  1. thelightofhope

    Hi Jessica,

    Thankyou so much for all you help. During the time of first writting to you, we have seperated. At first it was pretty emotional, as gee he ran me over with a steamroller, never expected it in my wildest dreams.

    I wished him well in finding what it is he is looking for, and if he realises he made a mistake, that he would be the only one I would let back into my life.

    Now, going forward for me, Ive left my life just simmer on the backburner for so long, that Im just going for it, no more procrastination.

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